C-Section Awareness Month - Maleea’s Story. When I was 20 years old, I became seriously ill. Doctors struggled for months to determine what was wrong, and by the time I received a diagnosis, I needed not just one, but two pelvic surgeries to repair and heal my body. I vividly remember lying on the operating table as the doctor handed me a waiver and explained that the surgery could leave me unable to conceive, or if I could conceive, I might not be able to give birth naturally. At that time, future children weren’t even on my radar, but I felt the gravity of the decision as I signed my name—once for each surgery. Fortunately, time healed my illness, and six years later, I was surprised to find out I was pregnant with my first son. During my first appointment, my OB reviewed my medical history and confirmed my suspicions: a vaginal birth was incredibly risky. I decided that a c-section was my best option for leaving the hospital as a healthy mother with a healthy baby. The day of my c-section arrived, and I found the experience surprisingly peaceful. The most challenging part was navigating those first nights in the hospital bed while learning to care for a newborn. I learned a lot during that time. By the time I had my second son, I had developed my “ideal” c-section plan: - I hired a doula whom I loved. - I had an amazing lactation consultant and nurse friend ready to support me. - I requested an anesthesiologist I trusted completely. - I expressed colostrum before my baby was born and brought it to the hospital. - I brought a diffuser, twinkle lights, and music to create a cozy atmosphere in our room. - I packed a ring sling baby carrier to make those first few days easier. And let me tell you—it was everything. It healed me and helped me regain my sense of power. So, sister, let me share this: a c-section does not equal failure or a poor birth experience. You need a team that you trust. Think about how you want your experience to look. Hire the doula, set up your hospital space for comfort, and advocate for your hopes and needs. It can be a radiant experience.